Here is the update.
This morning before group he was smoking a cigarette with another member. I went over to talk to them and he said he left me a message yesterday and was wondering why I wasn't there. I told him that I called him back and he started complaining about his dang phone not working right. He demanded a hug from me..he didn't seem quite right either. Way too upity and also on edge or something.
Then, during "group" today, one of the members said that he smelled of alcohol. He got very defensive and said "I'll drop" (urine analysis). Someone else said they could smell alcohol on him as well, and he said he could smell pot in the room. Then it was break time. We went outside to smoke. I pulled him aside and told him that I did talk to him yesterday, that I knew he wasn't sober and that he was slurring his words. To that, he said it was NOT alcohol, it must be the pain killers. I asked what pain killers he was on, and he said he took a couple of Xanax. I let it go because I was pretty sure he was not sober. Xanax is NOT a pain killer.
We got back from break and our facilitator has contacted his counselor. He had to drop a UA.
So....After group I went to the office to schedule my next appointment with my counselor. He was a good 20 feel behind me and had to make a point to tell me good bye and give me puppy dog eyes.
I told my counselor. I didn't give his name or even say if it was a he or she. My counselor knew exactly who I was talking about.
He's also been kinda creeping me out..invading my personal space, calling me sweetie, cutie, honey, always needing hugs...and he is always staring at me.
Tomorrow is my last day of group with him. Next week I have to switch to nights since I start my new job.