Cast iron, stainless steel, high carbon steel, mineral pans, enamled cast iron, even aluminum pans will make a great steak. Each has it's own peculiarities.
Cast iron is fool proof and is nearly indestructable, if you use it properly. The new "pre-seasoned" pans from Lodge need to be washed, tehn heated again to dry the moisture away. Then, simply wipe a bit of lard, shortening, or oil on the pan and let it begin to smoke. Wipe a bit more fat on it and it's ready to start cooking.
Most people believe that a pan has to be smoking hot to create a great sear. The pan surface should be somewhere around 360'. You'll get that over medium-high heat easily. When the pan is hot, simply place the seasoned steak on it and cook for 3 to 4 minutes, without touching it. Flip and repeat. About 3 minutes should get you a little less done than medium rare, depending on how thick your steak is. 3 and a half minutes is good for most people. 4 minutes and the steak starts going into the a little pink in the midlle stage. For perfect results everytime, use an instant read meat thermometer, or learn to detect how done it is by touch. I get it right by observing the steak, and the color of the seeping juices, and some internal timer in my brain that I can't explain.
Carbon steel pans work the same way as do cast iron. They need a little seasoning. I have a flat bottomed carbon steel wok that cooks great steaks. The metal is thinner than in cast iron pans, and so heats more quickly. But steel and iron are pour conductors and so suffer from hot spots. As long as the heat source is even accross the metal, the hot spots will go away. That's why most stainless steel is eather clad, or have aluminum or copper disks on the bottom, to distribute the heat more evenly. And you have to understand that the thermal mass of carbon steel is less than for cast iron, simply because there is less metal to carry and hold the heat.
Stainless steel is notorious for foods sticking to it, because it is used unseasoned, that is, the food touches bare metal. The sticking can be elliminated by heating the pan to cooking tempeerature, then adding a tbs. or two of oil and coating the cooking surface.
Cook the steak the same way on all of the above pans.
Unknown to maost people, you can season aluminum pans the same way you season cast iron. I found that out while using an aluminum camping set on a Colemon White Gas powered camp stove. The seasoning worked great. Aluminum heats very quickly, but gives up its heat very quickly as well, and so needs a good heat source pumping heat to the pan.
Just remember, it's all about transfering heat into the meat. I have even tried something very unique in cooking steaks, just last night. I put about an inch of oil into a CI pan, heated it for making french fries, cooked the fries, and then place a steak into the hot oil for 4 minutes a side. The steak was medium rare with an amazing crust that was very thin. The downside to this method is that you cant season before frying. You have to season it afterwords. Even so, it was a darned tasty peice of sirloin.
Don't be afraid of steak. Just understand how it reacts to heat, then use common sense (derived from knowing something about the pots, pans, and cooking techniques you wish to use).
Come to think of it, you could easily season the meat before deep frying a steak. Simply season, then use a fork to stab the seasonings into the meat.
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