I just thought I'd drop in really quick. Lunch was great - in my heart of hearts I just couldn't go with the standard "funeral" meat/deli platter. I stewed 2 chickens all night, made chicken salad - sliced a baguette for that and used it also for the goat cheese, pesto, and roasted red peppers. I got that done this morning. Made my soup which was really good - good comfort food - and then made paninis with basil oil, water-packed mozzarella balls (sliced), prosciutto, roasted red peppers, and a spring mix - stuck a couple at a time in the panini grill and sliced them in thirds.
This was at their home - it was a "sit around" kind of lunch for family only. They did their last minute running around and buying something to wear tonight. Carol, the wife of Jerry who passed away, has lost so much weight she couldn't wear anything - not even rigged. Thank you again for the thoughts and prayers. You guys are great!!!!
So, I'm going to leave in about 15 minutes, get to their home again, and set everything out for family and friends. I've had this piece for a long time, I shared it with Carol and she agrees with me, it's very healing and comforting - I'll share it here. You never know who might need to hear it too.
Death is nothing at all;
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name;
speak to me in the same easy way you always used.
Put no deference into your tone; wear no forced air
of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little
jokes we enjoyed together.
Play...smile...think of me.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it always was;
there is absolutely unbroken continuity.
I am waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just around the corner
............and all is well...all is well