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CG, I have always said that a parent has several jobs....
...And the fourth was to remind your child every so often that you are not their friend all the time. Most of the time you are the parent.
Agreed. There is plenty of time to be "friends" when they are all grown-up. Or at least adults. I think it's the memories that you build when they are kids that make the friendship when they are grown and gone. We saw way more basketball games or ate way too many spaghetti noodles when our kids were young (not to mention the 20-mile-each-way drive to the community theatre several times a week for play rehearsal) but it's those kind of times spent together that build the friendship for later. I must brag that our kids like hanging around with us now! Seems like your kids do too.