I have PROOF that this is one of the friendliest boards ever since my last post in this thread. Last night one of the members here met my husband in a city where he is alone and showed him the city, patiently answered a barrage of questions about living there, took him for a beautifyul meal and introduced him to the rest of the family. I am amazed at the kindness and generousity of this person and I think his actions must also go towards the nice-ness of this forum!