Constance
Master Chef
Sounds to me like she may be jealous of you ?
That's what it seems to me, Middie. She's jealous of me, jealous of the male cat, and jealous of the dog. DH is the only one she likes.
Grillingfool, I have thought of that, too. It would probably be the kindest thing to have her put down, unless I could find another home for her, where there are no other pets and she could be the queen bee.
Our shelter doesn't put down any animals except those that are vicious or very sick. If they can't find homes for them here, they send them to other shelters, Chicago in particular. But it would be very traumatic for her.
It's also very traumatic for me to get peed on by my pet!