snack - thank you for saying you still feel welcome here because YOU ARE WELCOME HERE! As adults, people will have issues. As adults, we should all be able to work through them and move on.
I really suggest everyone forget about the bad comments. Let's not keep those feelings alive...just forget them and let's move on. The more we bring up that stuff IMHO it just keeps growing.
We need to be above those comments. You guys rock!