i hesitate to say anything since i'm not at all an expert on relationships. i'm married now to a great guy by the grace of God - not 'cause i know what i'm doing lol. but...sush, i really like the advice from AndyM and texasgirl. It's honest, romantic and rings true. If it's meant to be, it will work - if it's not the right thing, you don't want it anyway! be true to yourself above all else!