larry_stewart
Master Chef
I dont eat out all that often, and when I do, its usually nothing too fancy.
These past few weeks I've been eating out quite a bit, at some more ' upscale' restaurants. I noticed a trend in these restaurants.
First we are greeted by, what else, a greeter.
We are then anded off to a seater to , what else, seat us.
Then, waiter/ waitress takes our order and brings our drinks
Our appetizers are brought to the table from another staff person
The main meal was then brought to the table by yet another person
and in one restaurant, a very nicely dressed woman in the brightest of all bright red dresses ( was stunning) came to our table, said hello ( with no formal introduction), then asked how we were doing ( still no introduction), then asked if we wanted anything for dessert ( which we didnt), so we politely declined.
So, my question is: Is it common to have different servers for each part of the meal in these fancy places ? If it happened once, i would have just thought it was unique to the restaurant, but it happened 3 times in the course of a few weeks at different restaurants. Is this a High End restaurant thing to do?
Was it just coincidence ? If it is typical , whats the purpose ?
I feel its kinda nice to get to know one person, who , if good at what they do, will pick up on your likes, dislikes ... and provide better service.
I bring this up, because this evening my wife ordered salad without the cheese on it ( vegan thing). The waitress taking the order said 'no problem'. Sure enough , the salad came with cheese on it, yet delivered to the table by another person who we didnt know. When my wife mentioned that she ordered without the cheese, the guy said we had to speak to the waitress who took the order ( im not sure how great his English was ). She came back, very apologetic, and brought the right thing over ( herself) relatively quickly and apologized again.
We weren't angry. It was an honest mistake, she fixed it, no harm done. MY feeling is, fi it was one person handling everything, it likely wouldn't have happened. Therefore , I wasn't really impressed by the multiple server system. In addition, my wife mentioned what if it was person with an allergy, and asked for something without nuts, seafood or any other common allergenic foods.
When she brought us the check, she had taken off the price of the salad ( which she shouldn't have). Wasn't a big deal and it was fixed. I felt bad that she took the cost of the salad off ( although it was a nice gesture).
I honestly felt that she , herself, handled it professionally and as i said, was an honest mistake that was fixed ( she made much bigger of a deal of it than we did). I gave her the tip I was planning on giving her anyway plus the amount of the salad. If it was malicious It would have reflected in the tip, but an honest mistake that was fixed , i didnt feel she needed to be penalized. She was very appreciative and almost acted like she got yelled at by her superior.
These past few weeks I've been eating out quite a bit, at some more ' upscale' restaurants. I noticed a trend in these restaurants.
First we are greeted by, what else, a greeter.
We are then anded off to a seater to , what else, seat us.
Then, waiter/ waitress takes our order and brings our drinks
Our appetizers are brought to the table from another staff person
The main meal was then brought to the table by yet another person
and in one restaurant, a very nicely dressed woman in the brightest of all bright red dresses ( was stunning) came to our table, said hello ( with no formal introduction), then asked how we were doing ( still no introduction), then asked if we wanted anything for dessert ( which we didnt), so we politely declined.
So, my question is: Is it common to have different servers for each part of the meal in these fancy places ? If it happened once, i would have just thought it was unique to the restaurant, but it happened 3 times in the course of a few weeks at different restaurants. Is this a High End restaurant thing to do?
Was it just coincidence ? If it is typical , whats the purpose ?
I feel its kinda nice to get to know one person, who , if good at what they do, will pick up on your likes, dislikes ... and provide better service.
I bring this up, because this evening my wife ordered salad without the cheese on it ( vegan thing). The waitress taking the order said 'no problem'. Sure enough , the salad came with cheese on it, yet delivered to the table by another person who we didnt know. When my wife mentioned that she ordered without the cheese, the guy said we had to speak to the waitress who took the order ( im not sure how great his English was ). She came back, very apologetic, and brought the right thing over ( herself) relatively quickly and apologized again.
We weren't angry. It was an honest mistake, she fixed it, no harm done. MY feeling is, fi it was one person handling everything, it likely wouldn't have happened. Therefore , I wasn't really impressed by the multiple server system. In addition, my wife mentioned what if it was person with an allergy, and asked for something without nuts, seafood or any other common allergenic foods.
When she brought us the check, she had taken off the price of the salad ( which she shouldn't have). Wasn't a big deal and it was fixed. I felt bad that she took the cost of the salad off ( although it was a nice gesture).
I honestly felt that she , herself, handled it professionally and as i said, was an honest mistake that was fixed ( she made much bigger of a deal of it than we did). I gave her the tip I was planning on giving her anyway plus the amount of the salad. If it was malicious It would have reflected in the tip, but an honest mistake that was fixed , i didnt feel she needed to be penalized. She was very appreciative and almost acted like she got yelled at by her superior.